Touched you me! The most beautiful wife takes good care of the vegetative husband for 14 years!

Release time:

Feb 16,2023


The wind in February blows the feathers of birds long, the leaves green and the flowers red, so that the emotions of life are burned with passion and the soul becomes pure in the wind in February.

Following the morning sun and the warm wind, the Blue Sea Chuanliu Xiaowei Charity Fund set off. This time we visited 12 families with difficulties in two villages in Longwangtang Street, High-tech Zone, Dalian High-tech Park.

 

Statistical Table of Assistance Objects
Reporting unit: Longwangtang Street, High-tech Zone
Serial Number

Community

Name Introduction to the object of assistance

1

Abalone Belly Village

Sun XX

Sun XX, female, widowed, is 75 years old. The old man takes medicine all the year round for physical reasons. Last year, his wife passed away, which hit the old man hard. His children live alone now because they work in other places and their economy is limited. The living allowance granted in the village has not been successfully handled, which is relatively difficult. No pension

2

Abalone Belly Village

Guo XX

Guo XX, male, widowed, 68 years old, lives alone, suffers from diabetes, and needs to take care of his elderly father with perennial medication. He does not have much financial resources. His daughter is divorced and has children. Life is more difficult. No pension

3

Abalone Belly Village

Wang XX

Wang XX, female, married, 49 years old. Her husband was paralyzed in bed due to a car accident and was unable to work. Her daughter had just graduated from university and was waiting for a job. Wang Jinfeng had no stable job because she needed to take care of her husband. She worked at home and had no stable economic income, so her family life was relatively difficult. Not Retired

4

Abalone Belly Village

Lu XX

Lu XX, female, widowed, 75 years old, suffering from breast cancer, need to take medicine and chemotherapy for a long time, have no ability to work, have no stable economic income, live alone, life is more difficult. No pension

5

Abalone Belly Village

Liu XX

Liu XX, male, married, 71 years old, lives with his wife. Liu Dianquan himself suffers from cancer. The old couple have no ability to work. The children's life is also more difficult. There is no stable source of income and life is more difficult. No pension

6

Abalone Belly Village

at XX

Yu XX, male, married, 60 years old, I suffer from cancer and need to take medicine and chemotherapy for a long time. His wife Guo Yanfeng works part-time in a processing factory and has no stable income. His daughter is married in other places and has little financial support. The family is more difficult. No pension

7

Abalone Belly Village

Week XX

Zhou XX, female, widowed, 70 years old, lives with her son. She has not recovered after a broken leg last year and is unable to work. Because of limited living conditions, her son is still unmarried and physically disabled. There is also a daughter who was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer last year and family life is more difficult. No pension

8

Yingge Stone Community

Tan XX

Tan XX, male, unmarried, 52 years old, type of personnel: no job, no source of income, physical disability, living on his father's retirement salary, living with his parents, his father is old and in poor physical condition, unable to take care of himself, his mother has no retirement salary, and family life is difficult. No pension

9

Yingge Stone Community

Zhang XX

Zhang XX, male, married, type of personnel: work unit: Dalian Xiangfeng Petrochemical Equipment Co., Ltd., with a monthly income of 2000 yuan, wife Yang Xiuyun, unemployed, pays social security by herself, takes care of her eldest daughter Zhang Xinyue with first-class intellectual disability at home, and her son Zhang Xuanwei studies in Longwangtang Central Primary School. A family of four lives only on Zhang Shouyan's salary, making family life difficult. No pension

10

Yingge Stone Community

Week XX

Zhou XX, male, divorced, now 62 years old, personnel category: physical condition: second-class physical disability, no job, no source of income, due to his wife's whereabouts unknown, the court decided to divorce, raising his daughter Zhou yinni alone, Zhou yinni studying in longwangtang 63 middle school, family life is difficult. No pension

11

Yingge Stone Community

Lin XX

Lin XX, male, unmarried, 40 years old, type of personnel: unable to work, disabled, no job, no source of income, living alone, stepmother to take care of its life, family life is difficult.

12

Yingge Stone Community

Zhang x

Zhang X, male, unmarried, 49 years old. Type of personnel: disabled, no job, no source of income, no marriage, no children, no ability to work and live with the mother, the mother has no retirement salary, and family life is difficult.

 

In the abalone belly village of Longwangtang street visited this time, there is a good wife who is praised by Shili Baxiang. She is Wang Jinfeng, who has taken good care of her paralyzed husband for 14 years. This inarticulate 49-year-old ordinary woman, with her family responsibility and dedication to love, will never give up to take care of her vegetative husband who was paralyzed after a car accident; take care of her old and sick mother-in-law; Take care of her young daughter and train her to become a top student in college. The villagers sincerely called her "the most beautiful wife of abalone belly village". Her deeds deeply moved us, walked into the home of this ordinary and great wife with admiration and admiration, and also deeply understood her story.

 

Small stature and big energy to face difficulties bravely

As the saying goes, "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately in the face of disaster." Wang Jinfeng's husband was in a car accident. Wang Jinfeng was only 35 years old. Many people advised her to remarry and find another tall branch, saying that her husband has no hope of cure and needs to be served all his life, which will delay your happiness for a lifetime. But Wang Jinfeng was unmoved. She felt that no matter what, the family could not collapse, and this persistence lasted for 14 years, and she would continue to persist.

Wang Jinfeng gets up before 5 o'clock every day, farms, cooks, takes care of her husband, takes care of her mother-in-law, and does a good job of housework. Relying on the help of relatives and friends, the government's assistance, and the help of the people around her, she gritted her teeth and survived. She can't remember how many families knocked on the doors of relatives and friends to borrow money in order to raise hundreds of yuan for medical expenses. I can't remember how many days and nights I fell asleep crying and woke up crying in my sleep.

For more than 5,000 days and nights, she had no time of her own, did not dare to get sick, and could not leave home. Wang Jinfeng seldom told others about these sufferings, tiredness, and pain, and did not know how to tell them. All the sufferings were borne silently by herself. It is precisely because of Wang Jinfeng's careful care that although her husband has become a vegetative for 14 years, he does not have a bedsore on his body, his body is refreshing from the inside to the outside, and his home is clean and free of peculiar smell. If we don't say it, we still think his husband is asleep like a healthy person.

When it comes to Wang Jinfeng's taking care of her husband, the villagers in the abalone belly know it. The villagers all say that if it weren't for such a good wife as Wang Jinfeng, his husband would have died. The emperor lived up to his heart. Under her careful training, her daughter was finally admitted to the ideal university, relying on student loans and work-study programs to complete her studies. Under the teaching of her mother's words and deeds, the daughter is positive and optimistic. As long as she is at home, she will tie her father to a wheelchair, push him out to bask in the sun, and talk about happy things with her father, even if her father has no reaction.

For 14 years, Wang Jinfeng's daily life was to wash her husband, clean up his stool and urine, turn over for him once every two hours, massage twice a day for two hours, and Wang Jinfeng was sweating profusely after each massage. She has little time to go out, only by going out in the morning to plant and pick vegetables. Every day is so busy and hard, but Wang Jinfeng never gave up his treatment and care. She said, "As long as I have a breath, I will take care of him for one day. I am his wife and have the responsibility to take care of him." Wang Jinfeng's tone was firm.

Relevant departments in the county often visit her home and offer condolences, and volunteers often give a helping hand. Wang Jinfeng is full of gratitude for the care and help given by everyone.

With reluctance, we took a group photo with this great woman at the door of our house. We believe that a home with love and love will definitely have a clear sky.

 

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